Seeing Beyond Behavior

You know those people in your environment that always complain? They can never find anything positive to say and are always in victim mode.

How do you handle them? Do you see them coming and run the other way? What is your reaction to their negativity?

I want to share with you ways in which you can deal with them on a daily basis and maintain your positive energy. You may never be able to change others, but you do have control over yourself. You have the ability to change your reality simply by applying these shifts in your perception.

• Start focusing on anything positive about them, qualities they may have, such as: "They are always on time" or "They have a good heart and support larger causes". We all know that what you focus on expands, so no matter how small just get started shifting your perception.
  
  
• See them for their Highest potential, hold the space for the possibility of growth and expansion beyond them being a victim. Never buy into their story of victimhood and negativity.
  
  
• Share your experience of life and how you perceive things as lessons for growth and evolution. "It's been my experience..." or "One lesson I learned..." Release the tendency to share in the gathering of evidence to support their sob story.
  
  
• Look inward and see if you are carrying any of their habits within yourself and begin shifting your thoughts and beliefs. As you change any of the parts of the system you change the whole dynamic.

These are small action steps that you can take to create tremendous change in in your relationships and life. Making changes in your perception and assisting others along the way will stand to increase the positive energy of your environment and will allow you to take charge of your life.

Christel Hughes, C.Ht.

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